Taking Care of My F

I've posted a lot about how my feelings get in the way or are unproductive, and a lot of that is true, but I'm starting to think there's another facet of the story that needs tending. I actually AM an F, as in, ENFJ. While, in many ways, I wish I was an ENTJ, that's not who I am or what I can become any time soon. 

Therefore, I have to take care of my feelings. According to one site, "They like and in fact need to laugh in order to discharge the emotional energy that accumulates within. Their own emotions are of a dramatic nature, which they try hard to control. "

I often have deeply experienced feelings that can get in the way - perhaps because I simply haven't thought through the situations that could affected me. I am a 70% F and 30% T. I need to use my T to take care of my F, I think. 

Here's a great, side-by-side comparison of what I've been struggling with:
from http://www.mypersonality.info/personality-types/thinking-feeling/ 

Thinking and Feeling are opposite preferences. A person's natural tendency toward one will be stronger than the other. Thinking (T) Thinking refers to how people make decisions. Thinking people are objective and make decisions based on facts. They are ruled by their head instead of their heart. Thinking people judge situations and others based on logic. Thinking Characteristics Logical Objective Decides with head Wants truth Rational Impersonal Critical Thick-skinned Firm with people Driven by thought Thinking Personality Types ESTJ - Overseer ESTP - Persuader ENTJ - Chief ENTP - Originator ISTJ - Examiner ISTP - Craftsman INTJ - Strategist INTP - Engineer   or   Feeling (F) Feeling refers to how people make decisions. Feeling people are subjective and make decisions based on principles and values. They are ruled by their heart instead of their head. Feeling people judge situations and others based on feelings and extenuating circumstances. Feeling Characteristics Decides with heart Dislikes conflict Passionate Driven by emotion Gentle Easily hurt Empathetic Caring of others Warm Feeling Personality Types ESFJ - Supporter ESFP - Entertainer ENFJ - Mentor ENFP - Advocate ISFJ - Defender ISFP - Artist INFJ - Confidant INFP - Dreamer