Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Notes About My Wife

What did she mean by I want her to be a diff person ?
     - "better at sex"
     - "better at communication"
     - how is that a "diff person"???
 ppl much younger seem to be as / more mature
She said that she has tried plenty of times before the kids and after without success
She said that I only listen to what I want she asked if we were done. I told her what I knew which also included that I didn't know how to possibly going to move forward

4give what needs to be 4given and then move on from past mistakes. true. i have to stop thinking i am a piece of shit and being depressed. it's very unproductive.

Makes me sad: Twitter profile: mom of apple, walter, leon bear & charlie boy.. happy wife, happy life.

She said I need to be slow and gentle
She sort of agreed she presents issues
She said she might be anxious not not clinically Anxious
I am remembering more about the early days. That first email that she sent to me where she said we didn't feel like "us" and she asked in a plaintive way how to return to that, or what she might do differently.
she gets overwhelmed easily?
she's convinced i am bad at relationships
she's convinced i want her to be a different person
does she short-circut with planning and decisions?

in the beginning of any relationship it's easy 212 do things for the other person because your love and passion and saturation call maine goal to create a very powerful motivating force. As time passes maybe 1 or both yeah a bit more comfortable and a bit lazy and taking you from each other both the passion and me action of being considerate diminished. Richard richard with my wife tonight that was very much to case is I have blocked about many times before and now I'm in the situation of meeting and wanting very much to turn around our marriage and bring it to a place where there is much more communication connection. There is a point, however, where relationships go that from which they can not return. It doesn't have to be the day cannot return from a place of being hopeless or from a place is being very possible, it doesn't mean that day. Return return I don't mean to be so dramatic but there is a number of things that build up in a person's mind about the other person better simply not over. And you made to speak to you to love that person out of this s city out of habit brother motivation 5 it's impossible to return to a place of innocence and I hope and in chile feeling a sense of potential because too much has been fed too much just been witness and those things are in fortunately nice negative. Ginger what does . Richard richard so I need to find a way to rekindle the passion love the promise in my marriage without using saturation and sexual attraction 2 drive me 4. Don't get me wrong I'm extremely attracted to my aunts there many times when I look at her from across the room and I just think how beautiful she gets there are many times when we kiss or hug and I become immediately around. That is in striking contrast to other relationships that I had prior to marriage were after that you are so or maybe a couple of years I couldn't become a rest and maybe I did have is much appreciation for her beauty. But not with my wife I think that there are several things to explore around what my role is and what it is that I need to do I think that the idea of being a mini is a good 1 I think sad I need to do better job that I'm more consistent basis. I'm not confident that I've been as helpful as I could have been over the last week or so. I think im any respect I've been gone to lose my focus regarding the chop. And I think that as difficult to the judges, in that yet difficult pattern of work or with home I think it is essential 2 helping my wife feel less overwhelmed and more comfortable wh

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