Safe??

she wants to feel safa but hasnt told me what that actually is.

i have been spending ll this time ; coping, but tthat sets up a fantasy life that's distracting a lot of the time.

maybe safe is to alrady be where I am asking her to be. and not judgint her on if/ how she gets there. but being patient and welcoming.

its a huge challenge, since being vulnerable isnt my strong suite\ and i often get hurt from her, but it's probably the nly way it's going to happen i think

maybe i need to be patient with how I get there