why be liked

It is baffling to me why I am unlikable - which is to say that I am not someone folks or family hate or dislike - I just dont seem to have the qualities of someone who is likeable.

I chagrin when I think about it and I am quickly comforted by the fact that likability is not exactly fundamentally necessary for my to survive or even thrive. I have long gotten used to not being popular. My friendships are mostly all dried up and really, when I think about it, it's not about being liked - it's about how much I earn; how much fun I have; how approachable I am; how much I can accomplish.