update on the craziness

• showed her two cashflows - one with and one without the move: 30k to the good, versus 4k to the negative
• attitude was complacent and defended her position that she'd run all the numbers in her head and think that there has to be a job that I'm not looking for 
• she agreed to talk with headhunters to get real intel + look for jobs + give me intel for ways we can borrow against investments or other sources
• wtf, seriously - but then again, she wasnt feeling well. so, I need to just back wtf off. I think she could just be about hiding into her protective shell vs. any attributes I've given her. It really is about [re]building me, not getting frustrated that others aren't meeting my needy expectations. Just drop it all and get moving with what's needed to bring me to full-on adult status.