too soon to tell, but...

Cleaning the pipes is just dumb. It leads to all the same tendencies  - craving intimacy, sex, etc.

I think I need to focus on being celibate. Here's some notes on how I might do that:

• Avoid temptation, especially at the start of this lifestyle. Do not put yourself in situations that might lead to sexual activity, such as close quarters with someone attractive of the opposite sex. Don't spend time alone and secluded together unless you absolutely know that you can control of yourself in that situation. You can still be intimate and close with them, as long as you are in control. (it also helps for them to know of your statutes with this lifestyle)
• It is a fact that after a certain amount of time, that if you do not remind yourself of what you are missing sexually, you will stop feeling strong urges. However, this can be hard if you regularly engaging in watching social entertainment like movies, TV shows, and many advertisements and commercials that continually show hormonally and/or sexually led relationships. Learn to ignore these; they are society's standards, not yours.
• If religion is a part of your decision to be celibate, read the Bible or other religious book for guidance and strength. Turn to your Priest or religious community in times of weakness and need. Prayer / meditation.
• Seek out online support and community - maybe these can help:
• http://healthycelibacy.blogspot.com/
• http://undividedblog.org.uk/
• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Celibacy