How to Make a Cake

Consider this analogy: sex is like cake. Men love cake. They want their cake right now and in as many freaky ways as they are moved to. Women love the act of making the cake - the prep, considering the ingredients, imagining different kinds of cakes, talking and sharing ideas about cakes (or cooking/baking/cleaning/entertaining for that matter). They like the process. 

If each gender had to write a cook book, for men it would be "The Joy of Cake!" for women it would be "The Joy of Making Your Favorite Cake: a fun guide for buying, preparing, baking and whatever comes next."